All human beings have similar features but surprisingly, that seems to be the end of our similarity. We differ in gender, thoughts, mindset ,race, religion and a whole lot of other things and as differently as we are, we tend to accept people who seem to know how to do what we do, think how we think and react how we react.
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Even in relationships, we still communicate differently. We express love and care in languages that may or may not be understood by our partner. According to Gary Chapman who discovered the love languages, every individual has a primary love language that when spoken to in that language(s), they feel loved.
Just as individuals communicate in different love languages, a person love in different love languages.
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Here are a list of the five love languages.
1.Words of Affirmation
2.Quality time
3.Gifts
4.Physical Touch
5.Act of service.
For purpose of this article today, we shall be looking at the love languages of words and gift.
Words of Affirmation
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For some individuals, the fastest way to communicate love to them is through words. They are easy to notice. They are the ones who communicate their feelings easily with words rather than action.
They easily tell you verbally how much you mean to them, say thank you, you are very caring e.t.c.
For people like this, it is their earnest wish to see their love language spoken to them equally.
If your partner perhaps communicate in words as his/her love language, this author appeals to you sincerely, do communicate love in words. Appreciate your partner with doting words. It fills up their love tank and make them feel loved.
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Their love tank is like a storage for love. Once the water storage tank is empty, you go thirsty just like the love storage tank of your partner. Once their storage tank is empty, they feel unloved and uncared for.
If your partner’s love language is words, express love verbally to your partner. They want and can never get tired of hearing how loving and appreciative you are of them.
Things like “Baby i really appreciate you going out to work to get food for me and our children”.
“I really want to thank you for making the home comfortable to live in, always keeping it clean and neat”.
Verbally expressing your love to your partner whose love language is words goes a long way in keeping your relationship healthy.
How To Know If Your Partner’s Love Language is Words
- They Communicate Their Feelings Easily
If your partner finds it easy to communicate their feelings, they most likely have words as their love language.
- They Get Angry Easily When Shouted Upon
If your partner’s love language is words, they most likely get hurt and angry when shouted upon. It really hurts them and they withdraw into their shell.
- They Always Tell You Verbally How Much They Are In Love With You
This is a must. If your partner’s love language is words, they will tell you how much they love you to the extent that you get tired.
Though there are other Signs, these are the prominent three….TO BE CONTINUED
Cheers to a more loving relationship.
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